Choose Your Words Wisely

WTF

My stupid self...

I'm so lazy...

I’ve been guilty of speaking to and of myself in a less than loving way. I am not sure how this became a thing or why I allowed it to go one, but I realize how Ludacris this thing is. You don't have to be a parent to know how you speak to people matters. We are told to speak positively to children because they are impressionable, but somewhere along the way, I forgot about the little child in me. I forgot about the little spirit that is still growing and learning and how she needs to be nurtured. In my forgetting, my word lost their sweetness becoming harsh rigid words that slice rather than build; and she began to doubt herself.

Love is a verb. Nurturing, patience and being kind are manifestations of love. The opposite of these things are exactly that, the opposite of love and I see where it’s gotten me. And while I am not currently in a bad place I wonder how things could improve. I want something different so I have to do something different.

I wonder how things could be if I offered myself more patience, more grace, and spoke to myself only using kind/encouraging words. The pyramids of Egypt were not built in a day, so I understand greatness takes both determination and time. Today I pledge to take one step towards better caring for myself. For the next 30 days( minimum), I will now end and begin my day by drinking tea; if you (know me personally you know that is a change😂). But I want a healthier body and specifically a fibroid free uterus. I am going to offer my body the things she needs to be better. I am going to take simple loving action and see how it pleases my inner child/spirit.

✨Love helps us grow into better people.

✨Love is patient & Love is kind.

✨Kindly talk to yourself the same way you would a child you cared for.

✨Give yourself the same patience you give your loved ones.

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💛Mya

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